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One Year Since College Graduation, Everything's Changed.
So it's officially been one year since I graduated college... and I'm questioning everything. In this episode, we reflect on how this past year post-grad has turned so many of my perspectives on life upside down.
ABOUT THE PODCAST: Welcome to the 'The Untitled Project' Podcast, a podcast I am still very much figuring out that also happens to be about figuring things out. I'm Bridgette. I just turned 23, am living my post-grad life in New York City, and I am an Untitled Project in the making. Let's talk.
SPOTIFY LINKS:
Podcast: podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/bridgette-gong
Episode Three: podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/bridgette-gong/episodes/Reflecting-on-One-Year-Since-College-Graduation-e2kp6l1
Companion Playlist: open.spotify.com/playlist/6RcKxziWwMsDgm36ywFCdD?si=2822a5eccdbc443d
Thanks so much for being here today -- if you like this podcast, please leave a comment below or give the show a follow or rating on Spotify!
CHAPTERS:
00:00 - 03:45 Life Updates
03:46 - 5:56 Today's Topic
5:57 - 13:58 Part I: Life Philosophy
13:59 - 24:18 Part II: Career
24:19 - 30:47 Part III: Inner Work
30:48 - 33:52 Conclusions
FOLLOW ALONG:
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Відео

My First Time on Set as an Actor
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In the 2nd episode of the Untitled Project Podcast, we venture into my acting journey over the years, culminating in my recent experience acting in my first film. We discuss the importance of pursuing your biggest dreams with unwavering courage and how to show up fearlessly in the pursuit of your biggest goals. ABOUT THE PODCAST: Welcome to the 'The Untitled Project' Podcast, a podcast I am sti...
The Different Eras of Us (Bridgette's Story)
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In the first episode of my new podcast, recorded hours away from aging yet another year, we discuss change, how we got here, and most importantly how to appreciate all the different eras of ourselves that play a monumental role in the people we are today. About the Podcast: Welcome to the first episode of The Untitled Project Podcast. I'm Bridgette. I just turned 23, am living my post-grad life...
New Year, New Me
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You don't have to have the whole plan figured out, you just need to know the next step... welcome to the first vlog of 2024 and my first post grad vlog ever! Hope you guys enjoy, and leave a comment below letting me know how your first few weeks of 2024 are going 📷🏙️🤍 See you next week! ~ CHAPTERS ~ 00:00 - 01:58 Vision Board: 2024 goals 01:59 - 03:45 Welcome back 03:46 -06:33 Room Renovation 6...
6 months ago I graduated... now what?
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Happy New Year, and welcome to 2024 🤍 In this video I have so many updates and stories to tell you about the past half year... and how it's led me to where I am now the plans I have going forward! I am so happy to be back on this channel to release bi-weekly videos from here on out 🥳🥳 Hope you guys had a great start to your new year and I'll see you guys in next week's video! Link to NYU Gradua...
Swan Song
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Nothing gold can stay 🎓 Incredibly pleased to present to you the final episode to close off the series 'The Way Things Were', before the new year arrives (depending on where you are in the world. In this episode, we attend the final graduation ceremony to close off this collegiate chapter of our lives at NYU. Thank you all so much for being a part of this journey, and I'm so excited for what th...
Intermission
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A break admist all the grad events enjoy the filler episode ♡ Fourth episode of 'The Way Things Were,' a series documenting life unfiltered during my last month of college, for all its ups and downs and in-betweens. If I ever wished to time travel to the past, I thought maybe I could do it with these videos. Next episode available here: ua-cam.com/video/R2BqwWafPCk/v-deo.html For context on thi...
Grad Party
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Appropriately unhinged. For context on this video, start here: ua-cam.com/video/spaz-Q2ZRL4/v-deo.html Next Episode: (ep 4): ua-cam.com/video/fKYRWuvw3e4/v-deo.html Previous episode (ep 2): ua-cam.com/video/oWNdo9lqz9s/v-deo.html First episode (ep 1): ua-cam.com/video/5rPoWsAxgfA/v-deo.html Third episode of 'The Way Things Were,' a series documenting life unfiltered during my last month of coll...
School's Out Forever
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For context on this video, start here: ua-cam.com/video/spaz-Q2ZRL4/v-deo.html Link to EPISODE TWO: ua-cam.com/video/oWNdo9lqz9s/v-deo.html First episode of 'The Way Things Were,' a series documenting life unfiltered during my last month of college, for all its ups and downs and in-betweens. If I ever wished to time travel to the past, I thought maybe I could do it with these videos. Next episo...
The Way Things Were - TRAILER
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Four years in the making... and now, the time has finally come for this long-awaited GRADUATION series 🎥🎓 For the entire month of May, I kept my camera attached to my wrist and left it rolling for as long as I could. Throughout the semester, I had been thinking about the ways in which I could make this graduation series special, since attending college felt like the culminaton of such a near an...
"The Matchmaker" | NYU Student Film
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"The Matchmaker" | NYU Student Film
"Wake Up" | NYU Student Film
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"Wake Up" | NYU Student Film
Princess Polly spring outfits 🌸 $700 Try-On Haul
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Princess Polly spring outfits 🌸 $700 Try-On Haul
"On This Day" (NYU Student Film)
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"On This Day" (NYU Student Film)
NYU TISCH FILM&TV MAJOR 🎬 Answering ALL your Questions (PART II)
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NYU TISCH FILM&TV MAJOR 🎬 Answering ALL your Questions (PART II)
NYU TISCH FILM & TV MAJOR 🎬 Everything You Need To Know (PART I)
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NYU TISCH FILM & TV MAJOR 🎬 Everything You Need To Know (PART I)
Week in the Life at New York University
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Week in the Life at New York University
The Final Semester (New York University)
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The Final Semester (New York University)
Winter Essentials ft. PrincessPolly | $600 Try On Haul
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Winter Essentials ft. PrincessPolly | $600 Try On Haul
A Busy Week at NYU 🎞 film sets, fall classes, Halloween & more
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A Busy Week at NYU 🎞 film sets, fall classes, Halloween & more
Midterms Week at New York University 🍂 fall college vlog
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Midterms Week at New York University 🍂 fall college vlog
The First Week of College at New York University 📚
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The First Week of College at New York University 📚
The First Week of College at NYU | Senior Year
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The First Week of College at NYU | Senior Year
NYC APARTMENT MAKE-OVER Vlog 🏙 (it's time for a change...)
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NYC APARTMENT MAKE-OVER Vlog 🏙 (it's time for a change...)

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  • @kenrho5039
    @kenrho5039 5 днів тому

    Hope you pursued a real degree, and didn't waste time and money on a 🗑️diploma. Which seems to be par for many from NYU.

  • @Jocolindres
    @Jocolindres 6 днів тому

    girlll i would be too scared to get those different angels of you in the office but wowo so cool that you can!

  • @NoBSOSRS
    @NoBSOSRS 8 днів тому

    Your video randomly popped up in my feed, and I rarely like to listen to younger people's thoughts, mostly because many of them live in skewed realities and their thinking processes are overly confident without enough holistic perspective. But I thought your way of explaining your understanding of the world feels like listening to my younger self. I'm 29, about to turn 30, and have thought a lot about what money actually is. I would argue that money doesn't have to be acquired by being the best at something, but on a deeper level, what role does society need, what is your expertise/interest, and how can you convert the value you create for society and turn it into a savable asset. Because you're right, there are a million ways to focus your energy to make money, but what path makes the most sense to you? In ancient history, our roles were well defined within the hunter and gatherer communities, and it would take a pack or village to survive. It wasn't about an individual's work, but more so the output that the village needed to make in order to survive. Now, we are living in a society which is running so efficiently while being so disconnected at the same time; we don't know where our food comes from, we don't know how things are made, or how things are sourced, mostly because our village is global and so many structures have been set up prior to you being born. Finding, discovering, or rationalizing your role within this current society, in my opinion, has become very abstract and very confusing for a new grad because a lot of things you haven't actually thought about, unless you have great mentors who thought about and teach you these systems, and you were proactively learning to improve society from an early age. The world today is a well-oiled machine. Your existence and current efforts have very little impact on what it produces tomorrow, next week, next year, and so on, and this is why I believe so many people are confused about what role to fit themselves in, and end up being forced into a vacant job opening in order to survive. But what I've found through a lot of rationalizing is that you are alive because your parents, grandparents, great-grandparents, and so on, were experts at what they provided for society during their time period. Figuring out what they did and the type of people they were allows you to abstractly think of the value you can provide to society. For example, my grandparents from my mom's side were teachers and opportunists, while my dad's side is good with numbers. My parents weren't very traditional and gave me a lot of freedom to do whatever I wanted. What I found interesting is that even before rationalizing the world at the level I do today at 30, I naturally found a groove in teaching and being good with numbers, finding success on UA-cam, without really putting much thought on why I was drawn to it in the beginning, and why the content on UA-cam connected with so many people. It's definitely a philosophical debate whether we have any free will, that everyones journeys was supposed to go exactly the way it was supposed to go and it wasn't supposed to go any other way. But it's why I like doing UA-cam as i've gotten older; society is giving you a hint of what you were meant to do, shown by likes and positive comments on youtube, and its up to you to decide what value you want to provide to others tomorrow. When I made the active choice to lean heavily on my UA-cam channel a few years ago and to fully commit to providing value based on the qualities that people like about my content, I've actually felt the most flow than I've ever been in my life. Of course, this tooks years of learning to innovate, trying out different ideas, to finally working on a master plan. Nowadays, I don't question my value, a lot of the noise of societal expectation is cut out in my mind, and I find I live every day with purpose even though it may not be completely enjoyable. But of course, alternative paths come with it's own internal hardships. Describing to my friends and colleagues what I do has been a painful journey in my early to mid-20s, but I've gotten more confident in my late 20s as I've learned to self-validate myself. I live in a very large extended family, and watching my younger relatives take more traditional paths in medicine, software engineering, accounting, earning six figures, traveling the world, having kids, has been tough on the psyche when they are constantly validated/praised. But as i've gotten older, i've realized you're not too late or too early, and the timeline of your idea of success is a mental prison you set for yourself. Because I know many people who are financially well-off by taking traditional paths, but struggle with stress, struggle with addiction, struggle with emotions, etc. What is financial success worth if you're an unpleasent energy to be around? I never comment on UA-cam, but I feel like i'm ahead of you by 6 years and maybe my perspective could be helpful. But I think its a good trait, myself included, to be aware that there's still a lot we don't know. Because in my mid-twenties, I found that our minds are like lighthouses. Each one shines a light on different ideas, helping us understand the world. But some lighthouses stay dark, hidden in our minds. When we finally light up those hidden lighthouses, not only do they add to our perspective, but they also make the others shine brighter. Anyways I spent too much time writing this, back to work

  • @KatlegoSwartbooi
    @KatlegoSwartbooi 12 днів тому

    Hi NYU looks like hard work

  • @abbyyyyyyyyyyy
    @abbyyyyyyyyyyy 14 днів тому

    Maybe go closer to mic for better quality 😊😊

  • @shadowmt6735
    @shadowmt6735 14 днів тому

    This is a Hamlet-style monologue. To be or not to be...

  • @Kimberly-sk3mk
    @Kimberly-sk3mk 15 днів тому

    Thanks very much, Bridge! I resonated with this. I hope you will see your way clear soon!

  • @zmurphy12
    @zmurphy12 16 днів тому

    Also just hit the one year mark!! Crazy how fast time goes by, it still feels like yesterday!

  • @Lmaoook
    @Lmaoook 17 днів тому

    Wow its been a year already?....

  • @yellowballoon4143
    @yellowballoon4143 17 днів тому

    Maybe a podcast on your favorite books. And specifically what books inspire you to be a better creative.

  • @BrandonB...
    @BrandonB... 17 днів тому

    One other path after graduation is some kind of public service. After playing with climbing the corporate ladder after graduation, I ended up going to work for a state-agency that did work I really believed in for over 5 years before going back full time to grad school. Many people join non-profits of all kinds doing stuff they believe in to get a sense of purpose they can’t find elsewhere. It’s maybe a potential other option

  • @edwardmtzf
    @edwardmtzf 17 днів тому

    thank you for making these videos for us, I identify a lot with you living in New York and also you help me a lot 🫶

  • @jimmyliu7655
    @jimmyliu7655 17 днів тому

    ahhh!!! welcome back to episode 3

  • @smkeong
    @smkeong 17 днів тому

    Hello 😊 happy to see new vlog again 🎉

  • @heyitsbridge
    @heyitsbridge 17 днів тому

    Welcome back to the Podcast! Comment down below with an ideas for topics to get into next time : ) love you all!

  • @deneengrant2086
    @deneengrant2086 18 днів тому

    This series was so good. I am late to the party, but so glad I took time to watch.

  • @jenosleftshoulder
    @jenosleftshoulder 21 день тому

    wow

  • @S-grace
    @S-grace Місяць тому

    Heyyy!!! U earned urself a new subscriber!! Such a beautiful aesthetic 😍 love ur choice of bg music!!!

  • @loop3454
    @loop3454 Місяць тому

    this is crazy

  • @whiterabbit-nz1shhhh
    @whiterabbit-nz1shhhh Місяць тому

    I have a suggestion some video ideas

  • @Pandada123
    @Pandada123 Місяць тому

    You look like IU😊

  • @jamespark9848
    @jamespark9848 Місяць тому

    that alarm gave me instant anxiety

  • @j.s3300
    @j.s3300 Місяць тому

    I like this format

  • @1206Danielso
    @1206Danielso Місяць тому

    Stepping up in the acting world!!! :)

  • @asmashaikh3786
    @asmashaikh3786 Місяць тому

    First of all Congratulations bridge on role 🎉 So proud of you 🎉. Also I totally agree when you said how we can be the worst enemy of ourselves. I also tend to be caught up on that one thing that gone wrong rather than focusing on the brighter side. I loved this episode ❤❤❤

  • @jimmyliu7655
    @jimmyliu7655 Місяць тому

    hello bridge

  • @smkeong
    @smkeong Місяць тому

    Congratulations 🎉 happy to see your new vlog 😊

  • @sungkeh
    @sungkeh Місяць тому

    Congraats bridgee!

  • @heyitsbridge
    @heyitsbridge Місяць тому

    Welcome to the 'The Untitled Project' Podcast, a podcast I am still very much figuring out that also happens to be about figuring things out. I'm Bridgette. I just turned 23, am living my post-grad life in New York City, and I am an Untitled Project in the making. Let's talk : ) SPOTIFY LINKS: Podcast: podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/bridgette-gong Episode Two: podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/bridgette-gong/episodes/My-First-Time-as-an-Actor-on-Set-e2juo46 Companion Playlist: open.spotify.com/playlist/6RcKxziWwMsDgm36ywFCdD?si=cc6b3fddec784bb7

  • @creatingwithlove
    @creatingwithlove Місяць тому

    This is the first I've ever heard of Fire Tripper. I'll have to check it out.

  • @beautymakeuplovesosa
    @beautymakeuplovesosa Місяць тому

    Yo, im about to go nyu as well. I have a question tho. I got accepted to Stern. Will all my classes be only at the stern, or will i have to go around the city for different classes?

  • @alexanderander7495
    @alexanderander7495 Місяць тому

    Wow! I never knew about these inspirations. The similarities are so intriguing. I'll definitely have to give them a look

  • @jimsullivanyoutube
    @jimsullivanyoutube Місяць тому

    Thanks for a great vlog! I really enjoyed it. My daughter just wrapped up her first year at NYU. She’s in the same program that you are in this episode. I’m in San Diego and she doesn’t vlog so, it’s nice to get a sense of her world through you. Thank you! BTW: what kind of camera was that grey one you shot with? I don’t think I’ve ever seen that one before.

  • @ellisonsprinkle
    @ellisonsprinkle Місяць тому

    Happy birthday! I had an astrology reading and was told that i have the feeling of starting all over and starting fresh when entering a new chapter because i was born on a new moon. Not to start pigeonholing but i get a similar energy from this video🌙 I hope you get the most out of your new era!

    • @heyitsbridge
      @heyitsbridge Місяць тому

      I love this! i always love the feeling of a fresh start and going into a chapter of things. Happy for you and wishing you the best on your new chapter -- thank you so much 💗🥰

  • @j.s3300
    @j.s3300 Місяць тому

    ❤👌

  • @absolutelynuts5697
    @absolutelynuts5697 Місяць тому

    Happy birthday 🥳 wish you all the best in 23!

    • @heyitsbridge
      @heyitsbridge Місяць тому

      aw thank you so much, wishing you the best as well 🤩

  • @BrandonB...
    @BrandonB... Місяць тому

    Happy Birthday Bridge

  • @asmashaikh3786
    @asmashaikh3786 Місяць тому

    OMG love the episode ❤❤ can't wait for more 🎉

    • @heyitsbridge
      @heyitsbridge Місяць тому

      aw thank you SO much for listening! I appreciate you so much and am soo glad you enjoyed 💗💗

  • @amelinarifkoh
    @amelinarifkoh Місяць тому

    Happy birthday Bridgette. I wish you the best, you do your best version even though it is very difficult or confusing but this is your "Adult Session" it is very difficult to think about what you want to become, and to make sure you stay and always continue with your life and will get results and also the future the bright one. Enjoy the progress, and always be happy

    • @heyitsbridge
      @heyitsbridge Місяць тому

      I appreciate you so much! Thank you for leaving this comment, as I love reading them. I will try my best to take you up on this wisdom 😊💗

  • @amelinarifkoh
    @amelinarifkoh Місяць тому

    Wow, she's back with another creativity. Good job Bridgette❤

    • @heyitsbridge
      @heyitsbridge Місяць тому

      thank you so much for your support! 🥰🥰

  • @smkeong
    @smkeong Місяць тому

    New vlog 🎉 so happy 😊

  • @edwardmtzf
    @edwardmtzf Місяць тому

    I miss you!!! and I love your new podcast! I follow you already :D

    • @heyitsbridge
      @heyitsbridge Місяць тому

      you're the best!! good to hear from you again and your support truly means so much! 💗💗

  • @samuelchen717mu7
    @samuelchen717mu7 Місяць тому

    Love you! Going to stern next year! Yeah I definitely understand what your coming from. But follow your dream and do what you love!

    • @heyitsbridge
      @heyitsbridge Місяць тому

      aw congratulations!! Stern is an amazing school and I hope you have a great time there -- you as well :))

    • @samuelchen717mu7
      @samuelchen717mu7 Місяць тому

      @@heyitsbridge thank you!

  • @anthonycook6213
    @anthonycook6213 Місяць тому

    I wish you a great and Happy Birthday! Your earlier videos show that you have a good eye and are able to capture mood with great composition and editing, supported by your growing sense of form and flow. Now your ability to speak your thoughts allow your words to stand on their own with no superfluous elements-no city scenes, no music, but just what you want to say. So you are mastering a greater range of possibilities, and I think all of your fans will eagerly look forward to wherever you take your channel. 🎉

  • @sungkeh
    @sungkeh Місяць тому

    Briiiddgeee!

  • @heyitsbridge
    @heyitsbridge Місяць тому

    MISSED YOU ALL! 🩷 And I started a podcast! (and you are watching the video version of the first episode now) Check out the podcast on Spotify and give it a follow 🥰: podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/bridgette-gong Episode One (audio): open.spotify.com/episode/0JYg2LiFPhuQbK1FniIMLu?si=808c28edf1a14693&nd=1&dlsi=6cb7d27dcd724af8 Companion Playlist: open.spotify.com/playlist/6RcKxziWwMsDgm36ywFCdD?si=cc6b3fddec784bb7&nd=1&dlsi=38a21a42c8c34772

    • @impatientjustsayit.602
      @impatientjustsayit.602 Місяць тому

      I MISS YOU SO BAD MISS BRIDGEEE and happy happy 23! i deeply hope everything of your 23 will be great!

  • @mmoonssunn
    @mmoonssunn Місяць тому

    Wow, I'm so happy you started a podcast🥰😍loved it.

  • @user-hk3gr1hs5l
    @user-hk3gr1hs5l Місяць тому

    Hi i am indian student

  • @user-hk3gr1hs5l
    @user-hk3gr1hs5l Місяць тому

    Hi

  • @supakku
    @supakku 2 місяці тому

    im laughing at how this is js on 2x speed